does time proves love in a relationship? i really duno or rather i doubt so. would having a long relation meaning a stabililty in relationship and getting married at the other end? if no, den what really proves the love for each other as i pondered... love is so fragile tat no matter how carefully u holds in your hands or how long u been with it.. it may end up breaking.. why is tat so?
after been thru much ups and downs in relations... i guessed each relation had made me become wiser and more careful in choosing my partner... i still believed in this phrase: "always choose the one whom u cant live without, rather than the one you can live with."
in a relation, does love actually comprises of all the determination, understanding, care etc? or does love and all the other elements adds up to maintaining a relationship? many of us have different views on love and different definition..
are gals of my age getting more practical in life as we no longer pursue only fun and interesting moments in life with our partners? we are looking into a future with our partners where we work towards the aim of settling down, getting a flat and having a family of our own. but how much does the guys know that we have not changed at all but we are in a different phrase of life. we have needs which differs from the past already- we need sense of security in our future together.
i will be out in the field in a month time, i believes that i would have reached another developmental stage as i continue to pursue my studies and continously upgrading myself. i hope to be an independent woman where no matter wad happens in life, be it failure in relation or marriage, i would have something to fall on as i depend on myself to live on.
First learn to believe in yourself, only then you will believe in others.
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