i had a chat with a few of my close friends this afternoon.. we were talking about this gal who been attached with her bf for a few years already.. but her life seems to be so empty besides at home- household chores, sleep, watch tv, play with younger sis and meet up with bf.. even when they meet up, they dun really go 'par toh' just eat downstairs for dinner and go nearby shopping mall to walk...
we encouraged her to open up her social circle and got to make more friends... no matter wad, one person cannot just live in her own world and bf's world.. i believed that one should not neglect his/her friends though he/she is attached... bue she's different.. her life was like that since she was young.. we hope to help her as we realised that her bf seems to have changed and not so loving with her anymore ever since an incident happened... her bf was instead so outgoing and always out with his friends... we were afraid her bf might start to find her boring.. moreover we r going to graduate soon in a few months time.. life as a teacher is on doubt plain as we will be facing staffs, children and parents... her bf would be out in the workforce, getting in touch with the society and make more friends.. we were worried for her... hope she would understand our intentions in helping her and not cope up at home everyday for the rest of her life.. be exposed to the world outside.. everyone need their own social support too...
well.. life is not only about growing up, receiving an education, getting married, have chidlren and die off like that... we have lots of things in life that we can do.. it all depends if we r willing to take the initiative to do it anot... although i am just an individual.. i hope to achieve something in life too.. life is lots more besides the ups and downs..
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